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“So perhaps the best thing to do is to stop writing Introductions and get on with the book.”
― A.A. Milne

Gracie’s Wisdom

Posted 02/26/15 2:47 AM by Mo Parisian
How many of you look at this picture and think “Yes!”

You can feel your stomach near you heart, which but the way, is beating madly.  You can feel the wind in your hair and hear the screams of your friends cheering you on.

Can you feel it?

And when you’re done, you swim back to shore, probably a little sore in places, but you can’t wipe the smile off your face.  You did something crazy and incredible, and now you carry that memory with you for the rest of your life.

How often does this happen in our lives?

Probably once if we’re lucky, but more often than not, it’s never.

And that’s okay, really.  I’m not here to make you feel bad that you don’t have million dollar dreams and goals that are unattainable.

But as I was working on my next project, I did realize that the advice one of my characters is giving might be beneficial to you as well.  I know most of us are still just going through the days trying to get to the next one, or the next weekend.  Always something to look forward to, but never focused on the now.  It’s time to start living and giving our own lives the attention they’ve been so patiently waiting for.

Gracie’s Steps to Reinvention

1. Take care of your health.  This is non-negotiable.
2. Find your hobby.  Not a job.  Not a kid.  Something that you can lose yourself in even for a small amount of time each day.
3. Take 24 hours before making any decisions.  Any. Decision. At. All.
4. Journal every day.  Have a place to dump all the thoughts that you can’t say out loud.  It doesn’t have to be long or well written.  Just get the thoughts out of your head.
5. Have a connection… a touchstone, a theme song, a prayer that will bring you back to this place of knowing what is most important to you.

No, these are life changing, and they seem so simple, but how many of us are doing these everyday?  I’m here to tell you that numbers 1 and 3 are kicking my ass, while the others are okay for me.  I would love to tell a co-worker that I needed to check with someone before taking their Sunday morning shift.  My initial instinct is always to make someone else feel better, even at my own expense.

Sometimes Usually I regret this quick decision.

Life is a work in progress, a journey, and it’s not meant to be mastered by the age of thirty-five.  I actually think that’s when it really begins.

So take a moment today and think about what you could (reasonably) change in your life to make it better?  Is there a hobby calling your name… photography, maybe?  Can you fit in a walk, even if it’s a short one?  What song would be playing if you were walking down a runway?

Today is about inspiring yourself.  Take the time to do one thing on the list today… two if you’re feeling adventurous.  Start somewhere, anywhere, and see what you can do.

Happy Wednesday!!

Leaping

Posted 05/4/14 4:34 PM by Mo Parisian

I don’t know about any of you, but in my opinion, leaping is nothing short of terrifying.  I mean seriously, when was the last time you took a chance (a scary one) or knew someone who did? Leaping isn’t for wimps, but I truly believe most of us are just going through life playing it […]

Leap

Posted 02/6/14 11:56 PM by Mo Parisian

This word has been a recurring theme in my life lately. Leap, and the net will appear. It’s something that is so easy to forget and so difficult to do.  Nobody wants to leap willingly, and more often than not, there is someone pushing you from behind…. all the while telling you to leap.  Playing […]

In the Middle

Posted 10/26/13 1:26 AM by Mo Parisian

Does this give you any indication of my mindset lately?  How about this and the fact I haven’t written in weeks?   I am not afraid to say that right now I feel like I’m in the middle of nowhere, however, I am hopeful that this is exactly where I will find what I need. […]

Remember me?

Posted 09/10/13 1:37 AM by Mo Parisian

It’s been weeks since I’ve written anything for anyone. Well, it feels like weeks. I’m not sure how long it really is, but jeez Louise this isn’t how I function, and I actually forgot about this until someone mentioned it today.  How could I forget about something that brings me so much happiness?  I’m smiling […]

charlie

Posted 07/12/13 1:10 AM by Mo Parisian

I haven’t written a word in almost a week.  Not really sure why… sometimes it’s just easier not to write than to break my own heart every time I open my laptop. But then I heard this song today, and kept thinking about Charlie, and knew some of you might be too. So if my […]

Finish Lines

Posted 05/24/13 12:29 PM by Mo Parisian

I imagine the last .2 miles in a marathon feel like the last 2 weeks of school.  When you’re running a marathon (again, I can only imagine) hitting the 26 mile mark must feel like the end, and that the last .2 were created by someone with a serious mean streak in them. That’s exactly […]

The Dream

Posted 04/2/13 12:37 PM by Mo Parisian

As I was getting ready this morning, I had a thought… I really hate going to work.Really original, right?  And I kept thinking about what it would take for me to not go to work anymore.  Here is my list: 1.  The rink could burn down.  But then I’d just be out of a job […]

Characters

Posted 04/2/13 1:52 AM by Mo Parisian

I’m taking a break today… a Spring Break, if you will, even though it was 32 for a high today.  I found myself sitting watching The Voice (hel-lo Blake!) wishing I had something to give you, and thought maybe I do. I would really like to introduce you to the characters I’ve been spending all […]

Dream Jobs

Posted 01/30/13 1:19 PM by Mo Parisian

I had a conversation with Jeff yesterday, and I literally can’t stop thinking about it, even today on my day off.  He was showing me pictures of his basement that he’s had to redo because of water damage a few weeks ago.  It is unbelievable what he has accomplished, and I simply told him he’s […]